How To Tell If You Are An Enabler

How to tell if you are an enabler and if so how to stop: Let me give you some examples. I have a friend that I have known for years and have watched her “help” her grown son. I have tried to tell her that he is using her. This fell on deaf ears. I was recently...

Who Might Be a Jerk

Red flags. How to tell if your “mate” is for you: A friend of mine was in a serious, committed , relationship years ago with a man she honestly wanted to marry. There were multiple red flags, though, and in hind sight she is now shocked that she fell for this guy. So,...

How to Correct Bad Habits

How to change your bad habits: First, you need to recognize what they are. Maybe, ask your best friend if you aren’t aware of any. I have noticed or been told of many different things that people do that they were possibly totally unaware of. I had a friend that would...

How to Be a Good Neighbor

How to be a good neighbor. I have had wonderful neighbors and not so good neighbors. I have always tried to be a good neighbor but must admit that many years ago when I was in my 20’s, I was not a very good neighbor to a friend that lived close by. That is actually...