How-Tos


How To Tell If You Are An Enabler

How to tell if you are an enabler and if so how to stop: Let me give you some examples. I have a friend that I have known for years and have watched her “help” her grown son. I have tried to tell her that he is using her. This fell on deaf ears. I was recently...

How to Correct Bad Habits

How to change your bad habits: First, you need to recognize what they are. Maybe, ask your best friend if you aren’t aware of any. I have noticed or been told of many different things that people do that they were possibly totally unaware of. I had a friend that would...

How to Be a Good Neighbor

How to be a good neighbor. I have had wonderful neighbors and not so good neighbors. I have always tried to be a good neighbor but must admit that many years ago when I was in my 20’s, I was not a very good neighbor to a friend that lived close by. That is actually...

Job Interview Tips

So, you have a job interview set up. I’ve interviewed about twenty candidates in my life so I would like to offer some tips. My first tip is that you should set up interviews while you are still employed somewhere else. You should be sure and dress professionally for...

Don’t you S.E.E?

Don’t you just S. E. E. Meaning, don’t you “just” Sleep, Eat, Excrete!!!! Try and accomplish something every day. I want you to try something: Every morning, after taking care of my immediate bathroom needs, then as you certainly must do, you wash your hands....